Sunday 2 September 2012

Respect!!!!!!!!

These amazing events rarely happen when we can solely connect and get absorbed in a different world all together.Largely influenced by a indian tele show 'haqueeqat ka amna samna' which i regularly watch, brings into the open some unusual cases and strengths of character.It is also like some of you could be feeling like in
bolly shows such as 'baagwan','ZNMD'.'TZP',Agennepath','Kal ho na ho'.......etc.Here i donot expect most to feel like i did.But real women will.It's only a matter of time.
u must have noticed 'amazing', a most improper use of verb bt u'll know why!
Running straight for the contents......it featured a case of a single mother....MIND IT unmarried and ditched by her ultra modern bf who was of the opinion that it was clear talk.However my point of view would not be raising my finger on this guy that the police can do but to pin point the 'amazing' character that i saw in her.
How pleading flattery and pressure cookers gave way to her.She had nothing else and more so she is an orphan!Of course she's been brought up by a couple bt denied facilities soon when they have their own son.
I donot know what to say but ladies this is one incident and one common person we can learn a lot from.


Her foster parents who are keen on getting her married in which ever way are also left spell bound.In the very opening 'I earn, I can support my child......i can bring it up!I've been saying this constantly'.Here the lady gets my eyes fixed.Not many have i seen of such vigor,confidence and self respect. And all this in the most indian style....(for those who think such can be only clad in some foreign attire).She has a best friend who is fortunately a boy and a great man(for he offers her marriage like some bolly shot).......but here i have a flaw for the lady.She in her attempt to suppress the real father's name had once put in that of this poor guy(who doesn't deny straight away)!But later she makes up.Now the better part......reason y she didn't name him.!!!!!
      'We can't marry she said......because there is no mutual understanding on this matter'
many women say this for various reasons but here the reason was
         'if he'll be forced for it......we'll always be denied the due respect and love'-RESPECT.rarely women feel this.The mother of that boy was on the show soon with an attitude to oblige the girl into marriage with her son.She said 'chinta mat karo, humlog use mana lenge'
ans 'to use force karna hoga matlab hum donoko kabhi wo pyaar aur samman nehi de payega'-KUDOS for this
the mother-'who's going to make a girl like u (unmarried mother) their bahu.....see her tewar,main tum pe taras kha ke yeha aagayi'
ans 'u came here to save the left over respect......i'm not the only unmarried mother ur son is also being a father........unmarried mind it'->this ladies lack.
The single mother stats has raised to 12% in INDIA including windows.Not much to say but i found it more worth a write than read....so it's here.
for those who r waiting for Anya's diary-Anya will catch up later............very soon indeed!

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